Did I Say That?

I was told by my great friend L. the reason I wasn't invited to a BBQ she had at her place a few months ago, I didn't even know about the BBQ and it was mostly her fiancé’s friends. Well it came as a huge surprise that I didn't receive an invitation as she regards me as her "best friend" she is getting married in August, not having a bridal party but I’m unofficial bridesmaid, the one that tells her she has lipstick on her teeth or a hair out of place.

3 years ago at Muz’s birthday dinner at an Indian restaurant with a group of Muz’s friends there was a girl sucking on her fingers after each bite. Apparently Allegedly I made a comment to Dave about how repulsed I was at being exposed to that slurping, sucking, popping sound, I'm unsure if I extended it to loosing my appetite? Well, this guy “Dave” told the whole party what I had said; now none of them like me. Ha!

My issue with this revelation is: Why am I being ridiculed for an under the breath comment on being disgusted on this persons table manners and the issue not being HER bad manners? The funny thing is the only thing I remember of the night is the venue.

L. told me that I have some work ahead of me to get along with these people at her hens night in a few months!