From the book I’m currently reading. Yep, like I need more fuel to my proverbial cynical fire…
Woman blame men for acting fake. Interested when they’retrying to get them in the sack, then spending the night, not wanting to cuddle or spend the day together. But woman are the ones speeding zero to intimacy like a Ferrari. Which is more artificial?
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So basically the genders can't be honest with each other...
if everyone was naked, there would be less lying...
or more?
Indy, when does honesty kick in? Are you honest over your first date or just trying to get the girl into bed?
I'm sure you've once been exposed to a girl that faked intimacy?
I think its the same thing and honesty is grey in alot of peoples mind. Is ommiting somethiing important liying?
Cibby, we would be totally exposed - I would like to think we are less likley to lie...
ant... I'm going to question this one. I believe that statement is not just questioning which is more artificial out of the two but conduring up lies, so does that mean, if you have a weakness for the opposite sex you lie to them?
little book marked "Lies I have told" I've dated some men that really needed to keep a record of their lies. If you're gonna lie, lie properly :-P
The whole pocket/naked thing just reminded me of Seinfeld hehehehe
well, it's an interesting question. I don't think going from zero to intimacy is artificial. Some women (not all) tend to want someone to settle with - there's no being artificial about it unless you say you want 'only casual' and are lying - yes THAT would be artificial or fake. Some men however, I think, *actively try to fake* the intimacy in order to get women into bed. Totally different.
pray tell, what is the book you're reading?
"if everyone was naked, there would be less lying..."
...and more laughing! (At least in my case.)
katrina, more laughing? At or with me? It's cold out here!
Nat, do you think you over analyze? Maybe stop thinking and worrying, and just go with it.
If you're lying to get what you want (because you know if you were honest you wouldn't get the same outcome) that's shitty regardless of gender.
I ignore all books and relationship experts and use the "Would I be ok if someone did it to me?".
Easier and cleaner and has served me well so far.
M - very well analised... Question. Are you a woman that wants someone to settle down with?
treespotter - I'm reading
http://www.cadconfessions.com/
Katrina - Lets implement a naked society (in the summer only)
Vikki - I'm the last person to over analise! I just thought the statement SO TRUE when i read it.
Lucy, it's not a book by a relationship expert or alike, it's a biography of a NY city bachelor and how he meets woman, treats them and the breaking up process.
I wouldn't waste my time with any thing like men are from mars.
yes, and I'm a complete romantic about it too. Worse luck.
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