I’ve been relentlessly flirting with MFL (my first love) for over a month. He broached the tabo subject amongst ex-lovers, ‘how is your love life?’ 'Ha! non-existent!’ I replied and naturally I asked the same question: ‘I’m waiting for you to give up looking elsewhere…’
14 years ago
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Ooohhhh... so what's next?
it's cool to have an open dialogue with EXs about dating and sex. 'Remember that time you got your foot stuck in that jar of Nutella when we were doing it on the balcony? Ho ho, what good times!'
Ohhh dangerous ground you're treading there. Be careful hun. xx
cBabe - I'm now demanding him to come over next week and cook me dinner :-P
Cibby - we don't speak about dating, relationships etc... we broke up over 6 years ago and this is the first time its come up...
Steph - Believe me i know! I'll look after my little heart and I still love this guy so much I must look after his too.
Ding! Ding! Ding! (Alarm bells)...I'm with Steph v/dangerous ground but if you have thought it all thru then go for it but be careful Nat :)
PS: We want ALL the details ~grin~
WARNING! WARNING! DANGER NATALIE ROBINSON!
Eeeeeeeek! You and I are having a very coincidental week, you know. I just came thisclose to having a falling out with an old flame, because that old flame started flickering again. Thankfully we sorted it out.
My advice? Either reignite it or extinguish it before it smoulders away at the friendship...
Heh, but heck, what would I know? :-P
At the risk of jumpig on the bandwagon (pleeeeeeeeeease, let me get on the bandwagon!!!), I'd have to say I'm with Steph, Scorpy and the Rev.
Nonetheless, look forward to seeing what happens... ;)
Ding Dong, Ding Dong...
Scorpy, if any anything does happen you guys will be the first (maybe the only) to know ;-) feel privileged???
Tim - IT IS a coincidental week. You sorted it out with your old flame, but what direction did you go? reigniting or extinguish? I wont ever burn this friendship.
GB - The bandwagon wouldn't be complete without you *grin* thanks, whatever does happen will make interesting reading. :-)
Ant (and anyone else that wants the history here) - In brief. I met him when I was 15 through my best mate at the time, after a years or so we started dating, a year and a bit later he left me for another girl which lasted a couple weeks, he came back to me, my heart broken, shattered... for 3 months or more he was working on winning me back, flowers, chocolate, home made Greek delicacies (yum) then the worst thing happened, his father died in a car accident, I didn't leave his side. 2 years later sailing along, he gets all strange? I start to back off. he then asked me to marry him, I said 'I'm 19!' (I was 20 and he still teases me about lying about my age) I freaked, I didn't want to marry him, we started drifting, the usual relationship issues started arising. One night I was out at a friends place, he was supposed to pick me up (I didn't have a car at the time) many call's 'I'll be there soon' . Well, those hours pass and there was a fantastic guy there, he offered to take me home, I did the right thing and had the guy drop me off to where MFL was... MFL didn't want to leave yet so this guy drove me home and let me cry on his shoulder - that was the night I had met 'the one' my ex-fiancee.
It was extinguish, I'm afraid to say. Our lifegoals were simply too different.
My life isn't set in concrete, though. Maybe in another time and place... damn it! No smoulder! I said extinguish!
Haha, well, it is for now at least. We also have a no-flirting rule. That helps.
Thanks Ant...
Tim - My life isn't set in concrete either, I never want to sell myself short. Implementing a no-flirting rule would be a little too hard, so many years of flirtatious exchanges is a hard habit to break.
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